woman protagonists

Lately, I've been thinking about the shows that I have been really into. some may say i'm hyperfixated.
- Frieren: Beyond Journey's End
- Arcane
- The Apothecary Diaries
All of these have very compelling lead woman characters. And it feels very comforting to have these characters written so well. Frieren, Jinx, and Maomao all feel like people who are just really cool. They have their passions from magic to tinkering to ... poison drinking (not encouraging this one to people). They have downfalls and triumphs. Quirks and flaws. The best word I can use to describe the feeling of watching these shows is cozy (maybe less cozy for arcane).
In a lot of cases where women are portrayed as "empowered" in film and media, it sometimes feels like directors interpret that as "show proof that a woman can do more or equal to a man", which feels forced and disingenuous (as knuckles once said... ).

in reality, a lot of people are better at things than others, independent of gender. and it really sucks to see society use sexism as a way to deny recognition for people's abilities. many internalize these dynamics to justify deep insecurities and neglect because of the pressures placed on them by their communities. It often feels like a zero-sum game — like we have to diminish one group just to uplift another onto level ground. but true equity shouldn't come at the cost of someone else's value. rather creating space to thrive and support others hurt.

we are teetering on the edge - if not in the midst - of a cultural moment where conversations around gender can feel hostile and full of blame. and too quickly is it turning sometimes reducing people's lived experiences to stereotypes or resentment. so we should all be a little bit better to each other. that's all.

recommend the shows above! c: